Julia 

The above graph represents the results of the Attraction Triangle Game.

Essentially, the game is to pick two out of three signs of attraction in a potential mate at the expense of the other; with the outcome having three possible choices as listed below and shown in the Attraction Triangle:

- Good Looks and Emotional Stability, but NOT Intelligent

- Intelligent and Emotionally Stable, but NOT Good Looking

- Good Looking and Intelligent, but NOT Emotionally Stable

You’re out with your girlfriends.  You’re having a great time talking and laughing.
 
When suddenly, out of the corner of your eye, you spot him.  A man who sets your heart a twitter.  Could he be your man? What do you do? How do you know if he’s available to meet you?  You could just go up and ask him.  Be brave.  Speak first.  See if he’s interested. However, I wouldn’t advise it.
 
Why not?  You might ask.
 
Because when you approach a man and make the first move, you don’t know if he’s your man. He may someone else’s man and is acting polite.
 
So how do you meet your man?

1.  Catch His Eye
 
Catch his eye and smile for five seconds.  Yes, it’s tough.  Yes, it feels like forever and you feel like a slut. Your lip sticks to your teeth because all the saliva has drained out of your mouth and down to your pits.
 
But it’s important to do it anyway.
 
Catch your man’s eye and hold the gaze long enough to see if he’s interested, available and safe to meet you.
 
If he is, he will approach you. 

When your man approaches you, let him speak first. Let him start the conversation. Let him say whatever he wants to say. 
 
It’s tough when your man is thinking of what to say to you for the first time.  He doesn’t want to look like an idiot. He wants to say something that will impress you or make you laugh. He wants your respect.
 
So no matter how awkward or clumsy it feels, just sit, smile and wait for him to speak.
 
Even if he says something stupid like, “Where’d you get your shoes?” (You’ll laugh about it later.) Your man is brave. He’s a hero. It takes courage for your man to walk across the room and say “hello.”
 
3.  Follow the Leader

In today’s world, with the advent of many technological advancements, meeting potential dates has never been easier. Finding a soulmate online is increasingly becoming popular among both males and females alike. However, like many other dating methods, it has its own set of challenges. This is especially true in a cross cultural relationship. With these 2 dating online tips, hopefully finding a soulmate online will be much easier, and more enjoyable for you.

Before we get started, let us identify the main challenge presented by online dating: though technically, this type of arrangement is different from a blind date, intrinsically the obstacles are the same. Both parties are jumping in with both feet, so to speak. Since there is no assurance that each one is truly who their online profile makes them out to be, some people approach meeting up for the first time with much trepidation. Also, because all one needs to participate in an online dating site is to create a profile (sometimes filled with bogus information intended to mislead and deceive), there is no assurance that the person on the other side of the screen is exactly who they say they are. Imagine how difficult it would be for people looking for a cross cultural relationship! This is where these dating online tips come in. Apply these two techniques and watch your results skyrocket!

The first tip is to do the necessary legwork. Doing an online background check on your potential date is an easy, simple activity which can save you from a lot of future headaches if you take the time to do it. A quick

So you have been looking forward to having your first date and that time is coming soon. Remember it is all but natural to have cold feet while waiting for that lovely day to come. What to wear on a first date for women is something that you should check out though since your goal here is to impress as well and it is always true that first impressions last. Women tend to appreciate things more by reading which explains why many women love to read novels more than men. On the contrary, men are actually predisposed to appreciate things more visually that means by looking.  Hence, one way to attract men is by dressing finely. As you read on you will discover some tips on dating men that will surely make your first date a memorable one, and who knows a prelude to the next and more!

Make sure you are donned with the appropriate clothes depending on the occasion. You should be able to know beforehand where the venue is. Ask your date where you are going and dress accordingly. If it is at a costume party for instance, then prepare an outfit suitable to the theme or if it is a special dinner at a fancy restaurant, then wear something appropriate for the place. You do not want to embarrass your date by the manner you dress.

There’s no man in sight for a husband…yet. Next best thing you can do is protect your baby making assets.

Maintaining your reproductive health comes down to diet and exercise. If you know you want babies but, aren’t yet in the relationship that will bring about a family, consider these 5 fundamentals that will help you stay fertile.

Hit the gym. Being too fat or too thin will adversely affect your fertility. It’s commonly considered a problem for women who are underweight but, women who are overweight may stop ovulating as well. Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) is a condition that interferes with ovulation and is common among women who carry excess weight. Ideally keep your BMI between 20 and 24 to maintain optimal health and fertility.

Taking a daily multivitamin can improve your overall health and better regulate your menstrual cycle. Further, B vitamins like folic acid (vitamin B9) are important during ovulation and conception. Around 700 micrograms (mcg) of folic acid are needed to improve ovulation; the average woman only receives about 400 mcgs per day. Folic acid will also help ensure that you have a healthy baby. Moreover, Vitamin C and other antioxidants can reduce stress and boost male and female fertility.

Ever wondered why women already in relationships get more attention than single women?

Let me explain.  It’s that smell.  See, a single chick doesn’t have a lot of sex contrary to popular belief.  She’s got like 2 dudes she recycles every few months.  Now, if she’s kinda out there, she’s gonna be having sex with many men and that changes her smell too.  Either way, it’s about the sex. That’s what men pick up on.  Women in relationships smell like they’ve been having sex.  It’s a certain pheromone scent that attracts other men. They smell “sweeter”.

Same reason why men are attracted to pregnant women.  It’s a smell.  Single women don’t have that same scent.  They’re rather “bitter” smelling.  If she’s single and having sex, she may have a slighter better chance of attracting a man.

So, what do I mean about attracting a man?  Just a dude to holla.  Someone to step to you, ask for a number.  That stuff.  Maybe, even marry you.  Below I got some reasons why married women–to account of all women in relationships– make the best girlfriends.

1.  Married women’s cookies are well oiled.   Despite what men say, too tight can be a bad thing.  It can hurt. Single women don’t have enough oil changes.  Married women got good cookies.