Do not build any relationship with a person if you do not like their childhood picture
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In this article, I want to talk about this topic. How can you know if a person is right for you for marriage, for friendship, for intimate relationships and for business, or not at all?
Relationships with other people can bring you a lot of joy, but also many bad things too. In an unfortunate combination of circumstances, you risk your health and lifetime and your financial situation. You met a person and you are planning some kind of interpersonal or business relationship. How can you know if this relationship is safe or not?
There are people who can immediately understand that a possible partner is not suitable for a relationship. These people have precise criteria for evaluating other people. However, most of us do not have such criteria. What should you do in such a situation? The person with whom you want to build a relationship can be kind and handsome or businesslike and energetic. How do you recognize what your relationship will be?
There is such a good way.
Ask this person to show you his or her childhood pictures of him or her between the ages of 5 and 8. Looking at these pictures, decide whether you like this child or not.
The fact is that at this age, people have not yet learned how to create a social face; they have not learned how to pretend.They has not yet learned to show himself the way adults and other people want to see him.
The child in the picture is “Tabula rasa” - a blank slate. Look not at the person who is next to you, but at the photograph, at the child who is depicted in it.
If you like this child, if he does not cause rejection in you, then you can try to build some kind of relationship with the person who was once this child.
If you did not like this child, then most likely you will not be able to build a good relationship with this person and you may find yourself in a difficult life situation.
Why is it happening? We all come from childhood. All our children’s problems and desires, all our children’s attitude to life - it always remains inside us until death. You should not choose the person who is trying to please you, but choose the child who looks at you from the photo.
You are choosing a child that is now deeply hidden in the person who is next to you. This child is now hidden behind the social face and social figure of an adult.
Here is such a little life hack for people who choose their friends, lovers, life partners and business partners.
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