We all want to become happy in both our personal and professional lives. We all want to live an easy and productive life, enjoying each coming day. Follow these simple rules, and you will have much happier waking in the morning.

    These seven rules can help you be happy. You need to take them seriously.

Rule one. You must want to be happy with all parts of your soul and strive for it. Many people are taught from childhood to be and look unhappy. We are subtly told that being happy is not good and shameful. Forget about it and allow yourself to be happy.

     Rule Two. Remember that other people’s happiness does not depend on you. Do not try to make other people happy. First, they will not appreciate it. Secondly, if they themselves do nothing to do it, why would you waste your time and other resources on them? Every Pinocchio is looking for his own golden key himself.

     Rule Three. Your emotional life should not depend on other people. We live in a society. Ever since you were a child, your life has been controlled first by your parents and then by anyone else who can influence you. The easiest way to control you is to influence your emotional realm. Remember, only you have the right to control your emotions. Automatically blacklist any people who are trying to emotionally influence you. They should no longer exist for you, either as a person or as a social object.

     Rule Four. When in your life, everything goes wrong. When your resources leak like bad pasta through a large colander. Find those beliefs that you have been forced to apply to yourself and to your life since childhood. You must. You owe. All these spells have been instilled in you since you were born by those people who want to control you and manage your life. After you get grown, these people pass on these magical spells of controlling you to other people. Detect these spells in your head and destroy them. You do not must anyone anything, and you do not owe anyone anything. Especially those people who, at least once in your life, used you for their own purposes.

     Rule Five. Accept yourself for who or what you are. We are all imperfect. If your imperfections do not affect other people’s lives and do not go against society’s rules and laws, why cannot you afford them? Because other people want you to live by their rules? Throw such people out of your life unconditionally and forever.

      Rule Six. Develop rules (criteria) for judging other people and their actions, and stick to them accurately. Strictly follow those rules. Do not be tempted to break them. Remember that most people can only change through words. People do not change in their actions. A scoundrel will always be a rascal, and a fraudster will always be a cheat. If a person deceives someone else, he will deceive you. If a person badmouths other people, he will badmouth you, too. Do not waste your life on unfit people!

     Rule Seven. Train your mind and independent thinking. Move from independent thinking to independent action and behavior. And the reward for you will be happiness and a life full of joy.

     Begin to apply these rules to your life, and you will see that your reality, even if slowly, begins to change for the better. Remember - things happen quickly only in bad advertising.